tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post8899462499723078536..comments2023-09-18T07:22:53.028-04:00Comments on Stephany Writes: What a Week!Stephanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01664500645286563334noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-47618883358621279112010-02-24T10:15:27.423-05:002010-02-24T10:15:27.423-05:00I missed you lady!
I'm really sorry about you...I missed you lady!<br /><br />I'm really sorry about your dad. That's so sad. At the same time, at least you're a strong enough person to know that this is HIS problem and not YOUR problem.<br /><br />I hope it all works out for you. You deserve great things.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-27095475654565899482010-02-24T00:10:34.499-05:002010-02-24T00:10:34.499-05:00"When life gets all in your face, breathe it ..."When life gets all in your face, breathe it out". <br />I am glad your back and I love the lay out!Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12452701777360580923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-9672102282632033102010-02-23T23:29:49.997-05:002010-02-23T23:29:49.997-05:00Well, look at you with a brand-new layout! Very ni...Well, look at you with a brand-new layout! Very nice. Sorry about your dad. But, you knew he was a jerk so the fact that he wrote something jerky at least wasn't a surprise, you know. I definetely wouldn't let him get away with taking no responsibility and making no apology but I also think you should really just let it go after that, like you said. He's not going to change. It's better to accept that, realize you are a much better person because you have learned from his mistakes even when he hasn't, and enjoy the good relationships you do have. Good to have you back :)Agehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02064144499582844602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-90030533993282391642010-02-23T17:17:22.329-05:002010-02-23T17:17:22.329-05:00Sigh. at least you have seen your dad's true c...Sigh. at least you have seen your dad's true colours and can finally move on.<br /><br />I remember you mentioning how worried you were about this assignment! Glad it's over now (I actually really enjoyed working with InDesign - it's awesome!) Sometimes despite your best efforts, your work doesn't come out the way you hoped for. But at least you handed it in.eemusingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08025534387718090906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-88022678809505740132010-02-23T12:54:33.241-05:002010-02-23T12:54:33.241-05:00Glad you're back! Love the new layout. :)
SO ...Glad you're back! Love the new layout. :)<br /><br />SO happy for the email you're planning to write. I think it'll be just what you need.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03044147599662389498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-25803916346890666372010-02-23T11:24:23.670-05:002010-02-23T11:24:23.670-05:00I'm glad you are back in blogging. I am sorry ...I'm glad you are back in blogging. I am sorry about the response from your Dad but I think you are smart to say everything you want to say and then be done. It's not worth your time, energy and caring. You can put that towards those in your life that deserve it and provide you with love and support in return.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03964218970797460632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-59805209236398532972010-02-23T07:25:15.428-05:002010-02-23T07:25:15.428-05:00Girl, what a week! Sounds like it's been a tou...Girl, what a week! Sounds like it's been a tough one. But I know just by reading a little of your blog that you're tough :) <br /><br />My heart breaks for your situation with your dad. I'm praying for you, that God would heal your heart and give you the words to say. <br /><br />You're one awesome girl! Keep on going :)Abbiehttp://abbiewrote.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-78870277853750669252010-02-22T21:30:06.752-05:002010-02-22T21:30:06.752-05:00I think the reply was a good thing. Not because he...I think the reply was a good thing. Not because he said anything helpful (coming across more and more like a massive douche) but because you proved to you, your brother and your mother that you're stronger than this situation. It takes a LOT of strength to compose the e-mail and send it out there. But what can be even harder is the taking the reply and not crumbling at the fact that you got an answer at all. You, missie, have a bunch to be proud of for what you've been doing.Stephen Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02832776451254908775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-2760119616440969062010-02-22T19:26:05.684-05:002010-02-22T19:26:05.684-05:00Welcome back! Sounds like it was a good thing you ...Welcome back! Sounds like it was a good thing you didn't have blogging with all the sickness and busyness. <br /><br />It sucks that your dad reacted that way, but I'm glad you're going to stand up for yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-47759528908475160132010-02-22T17:36:13.723-05:002010-02-22T17:36:13.723-05:00Sorry about your dad :( Sucks. You are a great p...Sorry about your dad :( Sucks. You are a great person, no matter what he says, take comfort in knowing that you are where you are, and who you are, because of your hard work. No one handed you anything, and that's really awesome, in my opinion.<br /><br />PS- Love the new Layout!!Storm. Kat Storm.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06865973596168021775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-17158262433823584322010-02-22T16:58:28.120-05:002010-02-22T16:58:28.120-05:00Sorry things didn't go well with your dad. I&#...Sorry things didn't go well with your dad. I'm sorry for him that he doesn't realize what a wonderful girl he has for daughter. Just surround yourself with the people who love you like your mom and your brother, God and Jesus, and try not to think about people who are being stupid and immature. You're such a nice girl and you shouldn't have to listen to someone talk to you that way. I don't understand how a parent can not want a relationship with their child. That just baffles me. I've had to deal with it with my own dad :/. I'm sure it has been something very hard for you to go through, but think about how great of a parent you will be because of it. I think you're going to be an amazing mom someday :) You have too good of heart. I hope this week goes better for you and you have time to breathe and relax! PS-I love your new layout. You always have the cutest layouts!Sarah Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06181196023308213233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-75763808935695823242010-02-22T15:09:57.304-05:002010-02-22T15:09:57.304-05:00I'm definately loving your new blog layout. I&...I'm definately loving your new blog layout. I'm sorry to hear about your dad but think you're a strong person for pushing forward. Remember to take time to breathe and sleep in between all the busy-ness.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13109096232554591570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-52583136201404753322010-02-22T14:47:21.466-05:002010-02-22T14:47:21.466-05:00That's sad about your dad...I think you're...That's sad about your dad...I think you're right in telling him off and then writing him off, even though I know it's hard. Hope you have a better, less eventful week.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07591431846793918375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-37875983655714579402010-02-22T13:04:54.128-05:002010-02-22T13:04:54.128-05:00I love your new blog layout!
Sorry to hear about ...I love your new blog layout!<br /><br />Sorry to hear about your dad's email :( I know it's hard, but it's just time to put him OUT of your life I think!<br /><br />Hope you're feeling better soon! This week is one of those CRAZY weeks at school for me with a whole bunch of due dates and midterms and I have NO motivation to do any of it :SAmberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05185652640389232120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-5966834487096588382010-02-22T11:51:20.520-05:002010-02-22T11:51:20.520-05:00So glad to have you back! I'm really liking yo...So glad to have you back! I'm really liking your new layout; it gets me in the mood for spring!<br /><br />I'm so sorry to hear what a crappy response you received from your dad. Even though what he said probably doesn't surprise you much, considering his track record, I know how much you hoped for a change of heart in him. As hard as it will be to be done with him, you can only take so much negativity and pain, and if that's all he's ever going to bring to your life, you're much better off without him. I do hope that one day he will realize what he's missing out on and reach out to you. <br /><br />I hope that you're feeling better. My hubby got sick last week, and a few days later, I woke up with a sore throat and it all went downhill from there. I'm starting to feel better but I'm still congested, blah!Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17269321014984871748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-14495141736659173082010-02-22T09:19:40.950-05:002010-02-22T09:19:40.950-05:001. So glad you're back!
2. I'm sorry the ...1. So glad you're back!<br /><br />2. I'm sorry the email back was horrible and I know first hand how tiring it is to put effort into something, be the mature party in the relationship only to have the parent act like a child and accept zero responsibility for anything. I did the same thing with my mum a few months ago - wrote a heartfelt email, left the door open for her to get in touch with me... and I got a response similar to yours. Blaming everyone but herself and accepting zero responsibility and making sure I felt like everything was MY fault. It's just not worth it, and it's painful - but sometimes just acknowledging that you've done all you can, and accepting that this person is a negative force who your life is better off without, for the time being. I'm sorry sweetie. I hope you feel better soon. *Hug*Emily Janehttp://emily-jane.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-76956668216418672842010-02-22T09:08:51.376-05:002010-02-22T09:08:51.376-05:00I really like the new layout!
I'm a new read...I really like the new layout! <br /><br />I'm a new reader and not sure about your past relationship with your father, but I can relate. I haven't spoken to my father since I was 13. We've traded some pretty horrific letters back and forth (more on his part). When I was 18, if he tried to contact me via letter I wrote "return to sender" on it without reading it. My life is 100% better without my father in it. Making that decisions to completely cut him out of my life wasn't easy, but it was totally necessary.Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07840515813374990142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-10180769889177391422010-02-22T08:49:51.619-05:002010-02-22T08:49:51.619-05:00PS! Love the layout!!!PS! Love the layout!!!gvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17702089938287377034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-2084495094265857622010-02-22T08:49:41.253-05:002010-02-22T08:49:41.253-05:00Whew! I'm tired just reading about your week. ...Whew! I'm tired just reading about your week. If I were you, I would just be done with your dad...who cares at this point? He isn't upset about it so why should you be? I know...that's much easier said than done.gvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17702089938287377034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2424251792068650186.post-91005273823780497912010-02-22T08:41:41.058-05:002010-02-22T08:41:41.058-05:00Glad to have you back in the blogging world!
I s...Glad to have you back in the blogging world! <br /><br />I still can't believe it, the whole situation with your dad. But hopefully you'll be more at ease once you can answer him & hash out all those feelings. You deserve to tell him exactly how you feel! And he needs to hear it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com